A bouquet of flowers is always a nice way to remind someone you care

If you plan to see your aging parents over the holidays, it is a great opportunity to check in on their mental and physical health. The below list includes specific questions to ask yourself when evaluating your parent(s)’ living situation. We call it The S.A.F.E. list.

SAFETY

• Are the lights working?

• Is the heat on?

• Has the well-maintained yard become overgrown?

• Are there dirty dishes in the sink?

• Are the pots scorched?

• Is their home cluttered with piles of newspapers and magazines?

• Is there food in the refrigerator is uneaten or spoiled?

• Are your parents having difficulty navigating the narrow stairway?

• Have your parents mentioned any recent falls or injuries? 


APPEARANCE

• Have they lost weight?

• Are your parents' clothes clean?

• Do your parents appear to be taking good care of themselves? 


• Frame-of-Mind

• Do they seem withdrawn or blue?

• Are they still connecting with friends?

• Have they lost interest in hobbies and